So parents may as well directly tell their children that they are proud of them, which can significantly boost childrens' confidence.
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Parents are the two people who keep us company, guide us, take care of us and devote all they have to us since we were born. During our long youth path, there’s always a heated discussion on the relationship between parents and children. I, myself, thus held a survey on my schoolmates and their parents. The results turn out that 80% of parents are proud of their children while only 60% of children do think so.
Where dose the twenty percentage go?Frommy perspective, two factors contribute to it. First isChinese traditional educational pattern. Parents would rather show their pride behind children’s back for fear that they might be too over-confident to behave well. When it comes to face-to-face conversations, parents prefer to point out mistakes, ignoring the fact that sometimes child needs more encouragement than criticism.
On the other hand, children are also to blame for their impatience and less attention to parents. We work hard and are so desperate to win praise and applause. When we don’t get what is expected, we easily are drown into disappointment, become angry, start complaining, and lose the patience to calm down and think deeply. Naturally, we fail to find out how deep our parents love us and how proud they are knowing we achieve a lot.
The missing twenty percentage mirrors the generation gap. Luckily, as long as parents and children make joint efforts, finally can we bridge the gap, understand each other and share a common idea.
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