和前任分手以后一定要做的2件事( 四 )



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这是今天的泛读章节里我最喜欢的选段。作者说没有人有这个义务或者责任来让你保持快乐,只有我们自己才能负起这个责任,也只有我们自己才能决定我们如何看待生活当中出现的各种人和事。

和前任分手以后一定要做的2件事

最后,我想跟你分享作者给所有分手的人提的一个建议:



I still resented my ex for what she had done. But at least now I was taking responsibility for my own emotions. And by doing so, I was choosing better values——values aimed at taking care of myself, learning to feel better about myself, rather than aimed at getting her to fix what she"d broken.